Former hip hop dancer Criscilla Anderson, 42, has had her husband, country singer Coffey Anderson, 44, by her side throughout her cancer journey. And Coffey recently gave a touching update on how his wife is doing lately.
In a recent show of support, Coffey “stole” Criscilla’s phone to make a post about his beloved wife the mother of their three children: Ethan, Emmarie and Everleigh. (Coffey also has an older daughter, Savannah Jean, from a previous marriage).
“Sometimes you're tired of the fight,” he wrote under a picture of his wife laying i bed. “@criscilla I applaud you for NOT giving up, never stopping, or throwing in the towel.” He then went on to say that Criscilla went on to detail some of the hardships of treatment she’s enduring since her diagnosis.
“Chemo treatments, 15 pills a day, neuropathy, cramping, natural treatments in Mexico, iv hydration, OZone, and missing the last day of school for your babies hurts your heart more than any needle. (And there's been A LOT of those),” he wrote. “It's not fair…at all.
“So today, looking at you sleep with tears in my eyes, I applaud you. Life has dealt you an unfair hand and you have danced on its head most days.”
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He did admit, however, that today was a hard day for his wife.
“But man…Today hurt,” he continued. “You're hurting. I wish I could take the pain away. So sleep, my love. Rest. Repair.
“I pray this, that tomorrow you can lean on me, hold your coffee mug with two hands, open the blinds, and say ‘Alexa, play praise and worship..’ with a big smile because God is on your side. I applaud you. Queen. Mom. Wife. Hero. Fighter. Winner. Survivor. Love you -Fey.”
Criscilla’s Cancer Battle
Criscilla was originally diagnosed with stage four colon cancer in 2018. But last summerwas a high point for the couple. Coffey exploded onto the charts with his anthem "Mr. Red White & Blue," and Criscilla received an incredible update on her cancer battle.
"I walked in and Criscilla was crying, and after four summers of going through this, you just never expect good news," Coffey told PEOPLE. "She told me that the doctor had said that she had reachedNED [no evidence of disease]. It took me about 15 minutes to grasp. My phone dropped out of my hand and my shoulders dropped and I just felt my body starting to realize the gravity of it."
"It was almost as if my body realized what she was telling me before my mind did," Coffey said. "I was leaning against the wall and then Criscilla came in and just hugged me. We both lost it at that moment."
Her victory over the disease last summer was a major milestone, but she knew she could not completely relax.
"The thing with cancer is that the chances of it returning are very, very high," she said. "That's why it's always been important for me to not only celebrate all the victories, but prepare my mind for a bad scan, which takes us right back to the drawing board. It's almost like I have to treat the cancer like a chronic disease."
Now, Criscilla is preparing for another fight, as cancer has been detected in her lymph nodes. Still,her spirit is unshakable.
"I'm always going to be preparing my heart and my mind for results that I don't want and just praying for the best," she said. "Do I want this diagnosis? Of course not…Who would want this? There are times when I get mad and I get angry and I get sad and then, I get hopeful again. The fight is still on, but I have a lot of fight in me."
Understanding Colorectal Cancer
The term colorectal cancer is used to describe cancers that begin in the colon or the rectum so some people just use the term colon cancer if that's where the disease began. The cancer develops when abnormal lumps calledpolypsgrow in the colon or rectum. It takesup to10 yearsfor a colon polyp to actually become cancer, according to SurvivorNet experts.
Colorectal cancer, like all cancers, presents its own unique challenges for patients on the road to recovery. ButDr. Heather Yeo, a surgical oncologist and colorectal surgeon at New York Presbyterian Weill Cornell Medical Center, wants to remind people how far the treatment of this disease has come.
"One of the most exciting things about my job is that we've made a lot of progress on treatment options," Dr. Yeo says in a previous interview with SurvivorNet. "However, patients are still while they're living longer, they are still living with colon cancer, and so I think it's really important that we talk about how some of the things in your life affect you."
Screening
Dr. Yeo also emphasizes the importance of colorectal cancer screenings such as colonoscopies because most colorectal cancers can be prevented early with screening.
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"In the United States, on a national level, colorectal cancer has been decreasing for the last 20 years," Dr. Yeo says. "And much of that is thought to be directly due to screening for colon cancer."
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Even still,colorectal cancer cases arerising among younger people. And in the United States alone,rates have increased every year from 2011 to 2016 by 2 percent among people younger than 50. Because of this increase, the United States Preventive Services Task Force has recently updated its colorectal cancer screening recommendations to begin at age 45 instead of 50.
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"We know that colon cancers can be prevented when polyps are found early," Dr. Yeo said. "Lowering the screening age helps somewhat with this. But access to care is a real problem."
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And increasing access is crucial to making sure that we don't see racial disparities within the world of colorectal cancer. Whites and Asians are significantly more likely to be up to date with their colonoscopies than African Americans, Latinos and Native Americans.
Research suggests that tailoring colon cancer screenings to each person's individual risk may be beneficial. If you are not yet 45 but have concerns about your risk, talk to your doctor. Ask about your individual risk based on your lifestyle and family history and find out when screenings would be right for you.
Symptoms of Colon Cancer
Colon cancer might not immediately cause symptoms, but there are signs to look out for.
Colon Cancer Symptoms
Below arepossible symptoms:
- A change in bowel habits, such as diarrhea, constipation or narrowing of the stool that lasts for more than a few days
- A feeling that you need to have a bowel movement that's not relieved by having one
- Rectal bleeding with bright red blood
- Blood in the stool, which might make the stool look dark brown or black
- Cramping or abdominal (belly) pain
- Weakness and fatigue
- Unintended weight loss
It is important to note, however, that displaying some of these symptoms does not mean you have colon cancer. You could also have colon cancer and not display any of these symptoms. Regardless, it is important to bring up any symptoms to your doctor should they arise.
Treatment for Stage Four Colon Cancer
Receiving the diagnosis of stage four colon cancer, or metastatic colon cancer, means that the tumor has spread outside the colon. Treatment for this stage colon cancer often includes chemotherapy alone, but select cases require a combination of chemotherapy and surgery depending on the patient, tumor properties and where exactly the cancer has spread.
Treating Stage Four Colon Cancer
"The overall view of treating metastatic colon cancer is that most of those patients can not proceed to surgery, and so their cancer can never be removed entirely,"Dr. Paul Oberstein, a medical oncologist withNYU Langone's Perlmutter Cancer Center, previously told SurvivorNet. "So they're going to live for the rest of their life with their cancer, and we're going to be their partners in giving therapy, or other experimental treatments that will control their cancer for as long as possible with the fewest side effects as possible."
The goal of treatment at this stage is to control the cancer, prevent it from growing or spreading and shrink it. Once the cancer is "under control," the phase of treatment called maintenance therapy generally begins. Over time, chemotherapy drugs might need to be switched if the cancer mutates or changes or the patient simply needs a break from the drugs.
"So then the next step is to maintain it so that the tumor doesn't grow, the person can continue living their life, and have reduced side effects compared to very aggressive chemotherapy.," Dr. Oberstein said.
Another treatment route to consider is with "novel therapies or experimental therapies or clinical trials."
"We emphasize to patients that that's something that we as oncologists are always considering," Dr. Oberstein explained. "So that if at a certain point, a novel therapy comes out, if someone makes an announcement, or we do a clinical trial, and we demonstrate that a new therapy is effective for colon cancer, that's something that potentially will help that person during their course of their disease."
No matter what, there are many factors to consider when deciding on the right course of treatment. Make sure you talk with your doctor about all your options if you or a loved one is faced with stage four colon cancer.
Contributing: Joe Kerwin
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